You, yourself limited the non-offensive use of the term goy to everyday Hebrew usage in that country.
Greg D you make mistakes by the bucketload here. the word goy is merely a word that describes a person who is not Jewish - I would have preferred the description non Jewish in Trumpeldors post but you are assuming negatives, as it seems is a regular thing for you.
Consider the word "goy" -- a gentile, or a non-Jew.
But this didn't stop her from being snobbish to me, and continuing to use the word "goy" - a pejorative term meaning "gentiles" - around me, which she knew offended me, since it disrespected a lot of people I loved.
Or maybe Matthew hopes to work for Haim Saban someday and doesnâ€™t want to embarrass Haim by pointing out that Haimâ€™s shabbos goy is looking somewhat. .er .. â€œshopwornâ€.